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Hey gang,
I have been here for a little while and still a newbie, and I have seen a number of heart breaking experiences with infidelity, my heart goes out to you and your families. Most advice I have read have been fairly good and some...well to be honest sort of hostile and or angry. Now granted I for one am not saying other tam users do not have a right to FEEL that way but at the same time I wonder even given the significant time to "heal" can TAM itself although helpful can be harmful and can be seen as a TRIGGER? Or do you think it depends on the person and their journey in how they go about progress with healing and possible forgiveness? I already know that typically it takes 2-5 years.
As a person that had dealt with infidelity I know first hand how it feels and I myself sometimes have trouble/struggle with reading familiar hurtful stories. How do you guys/gals deal please share your experiences the good/bad/and ugly.
Kris
I have been here for a little while and still a newbie, and I have seen a number of heart breaking experiences with infidelity, my heart goes out to you and your families. Most advice I have read have been fairly good and some...well to be honest sort of hostile and or angry. Now granted I for one am not saying other tam users do not have a right to FEEL that way but at the same time I wonder even given the significant time to "heal" can TAM itself although helpful can be harmful and can be seen as a TRIGGER? Or do you think it depends on the person and their journey in how they go about progress with healing and possible forgiveness? I already know that typically it takes 2-5 years.
As a person that had dealt with infidelity I know first hand how it feels and I myself sometimes have trouble/struggle with reading familiar hurtful stories. How do you guys/gals deal please share your experiences the good/bad/and ugly.
Kris