general thoughts. The walk away wife that starts a new life with a new man, is the grass generally not grren later i life?
:iagree:believe me it comes back at them. I should know- the grass is NOT greener because my new grass just went onto another patch after fifteen years .
The truth...when a relationship starts as an affair, from a womens point of view...there is this little seed inside which grows and affects the entire new relationship....you have this anxiety, you try to hide, and well.....it festers...even under the umbrella of declared love.....always doubting that he wont go and do the same... trust is what we base all of our love on...if the trust isnt there...I personally believe even if you are 'soulmates' (as I believed I was with mine) it eventually mauls the relationship in some form.
Im so sorry you have to go through this. breaks my heart.
You wont see it, you'll hear/read it Within a year she'll understand the grass is not greener and then you'll get text and phone callsI hope my STBXW falls flat on your financial a$$. Before she walked out on me, she was enjoying the party scene with all her single friends, while i paid the rent/utilities/cell bill...u name it. Now that she is completely cut off from my money (good job btw), she is off living with one of her friends, which i hate very much right now. The problem is she cant live there forever, and reality, rent/utilities/cell bill..etc..etc.. will come to bite her in the a$$. I wish i could be there to see it.