Still on the fence with my relationship and as I work to lose my extra 15lbs right now, I am curious if part of the reason we are having issues is my extra weight?
I will explain, when we met, my partner and I were both fit. I played sports in school and always used to being in shape. My partner was not as active but always pretty lean. Neither of us were health nuts. Over the years and 2 kids later, we both had some extra pounds.
My partner NEVER really tells me I look good but I guess I really did not either. Never really said I was fat but I certainly voiced my opposition to my own health. Over the summer, we took a vaca to an indoor swim park. I would NOT get in. I guess I just have my own insecurities with my weight.
FF to today, my partner has probably lost 10lbs and is going nuts in this health kick. I have returned the favor by moving my butt and dropping about 12lbs with about another 10 to go. I would not really call myself unhealthy looking, just "festively plump" or a few extra lbs.
I guess I have some growing concerns if my partner disapproved of my appearance or if that is "really" off the radar as much being mid 30s with kids? I would ask her but I really doubt she will tell me the truth.
Could this health kick boost our love life or is her recent health kick mean she wants to go shopping at ass mart?
I will explain, when we met, my partner and I were both fit. I played sports in school and always used to being in shape. My partner was not as active but always pretty lean. Neither of us were health nuts. Over the years and 2 kids later, we both had some extra pounds.
My partner NEVER really tells me I look good but I guess I really did not either. Never really said I was fat but I certainly voiced my opposition to my own health. Over the summer, we took a vaca to an indoor swim park. I would NOT get in. I guess I just have my own insecurities with my weight.
FF to today, my partner has probably lost 10lbs and is going nuts in this health kick. I have returned the favor by moving my butt and dropping about 12lbs with about another 10 to go. I would not really call myself unhealthy looking, just "festively plump" or a few extra lbs.
I guess I have some growing concerns if my partner disapproved of my appearance or if that is "really" off the radar as much being mid 30s with kids? I would ask her but I really doubt she will tell me the truth.
Could this health kick boost our love life or is her recent health kick mean she wants to go shopping at ass mart?