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I was thinking about this the other day when I thought about guys I know and I would think no I could not see that guy having an EA/PA, they seem like they have high morals, etc. Then I thought, well my H was one of those that I thought would never do it but he did.

Do you think that morality/decency would stop someone from doing that to their spouse or that any one of us given the right circumstances would be susceptible? I honestly could not see myself doing that behind my H's back..it seems like it would take so much energy, etc. to hide it as well I would feel incredibly guilty.
 

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I think some aspects of an EA people can easily fall into. It can be subconscious that a person might defer to someone other than their spouse for various reasons (none of them justifiable).

And also subconsciously prioritising someone else over your spouse.
 

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Do I think everyone is capable? Absolutely. Do I think that everyone does? Nope. I know plenty of people that have great bounderies and high morals. As for me, I could never be a hypocrit.
 

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Yes. everyone is capable, but not everyone CHOOSES to do such a thing.
 

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According to my H, every place he has worked over the last 10 years there have been many people who are having affairs, who are married or are in a committed relationship. I think it could happen to just about anyone, at any time IF they dont have the good morals to say no and squash it before it gets started.
 
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