So you are on this website to try and gain knowledge/wisdom on how to deal with your wife or husband leaving you. I did the same thing for many months but did not find the answers. The answers must come within yourself. Think about it …. You know how you feel about things and you try and determine how she/he feels. But all of it fails because they don’t want to me you ½ way do they? I have been to counseling, taken medication for depression ----- none of it works trust me. Bottom line is you need to find yourself and forget about him or her. Find what makes you happy in life. I tried to make her happy but guess what it did not work. She was focused on herself not US. I made all the attempts to fix the marriage and she made no attempt to meet me ½ way. So now … I am at peace with myself ….. I don’t need her anymore after being separated for a year and half. Yes a year and a half …. I supported her through this separation.. paying her health, life, dental insurance. While she drove my car that was in my name I paid the car insurance. Call me a dumb ass I deserve it. Hoping my wife would come back to me.
Read my lips … take care of yourself no-one else you will be much better off in the long run ….
Read my lips … take care of yourself no-one else you will be much better off in the long run ….