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Hi there. I'm asking this question because: Wife and me just went out with other couples. Guys talked guys stuff, girls talked girls stuff. Later on my wife told me what they talked about:

There was one of the women feeling very bad about her flat breasts and that she considers getting the job done. Another girl advised her to absolutely go for it. First girl replied that her husband hates it.

So the other woman (who had a boob job done already) continued, that her husband in the beginning hated it as well. But she did it anyway and now he loves it.

I know from him, however, that he does not love it at all. He has just learned to tolerate it for the sake of the peace in the house.

I personally love a good hand full, but also small ones. What I don't like are fakes. Just always makes me believe that she does not feel me anymore there and I want to be felt. BTW, I find small breasts worn without bra beneath the shirt super-sexy.

So, I'm asking: How many guys are really out there who really do like their wife to get her boobs done?

(BTW I also have my theory on this: Guys who like their wife to get a classic boob job are the ones who are not really into her, but rather showing off with her). Let me know what you think.
 

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Since I have never touched a fake boob, maybe I don't qualify to answer.
However, I love the look, the feel and the shape of real boobs. I think fake boobs look, well, fake. They are not as appealing as real ones.
 

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My wife has mentioned she wanted to get hers done.

I told her it would most probably greatly affect my physical attraction to her.
She`s not brought it up again.

I`ve never met a fake breast I liked.
 
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I don't have a problem with the actual boobs. Real or "fake".

But a lot of the women behind the fake ones do seem to have other issues that they think boobs will solve.

Confidence in a woman is way more important than cup size.
 

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When we've watched shows/docos about plastic surgery, I know that he finds it a complete turn-off (unless it's for medical reasons). Despite his preference for the natural look, for him it's largely related to the mindset and priorities of the person, that become the turn off.
 
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If so many men prefer natural boobs why are porn stars, glamour models, centrefolds (almost) all lugging around all the ENORMOUS plastic boobs?
I would imagine it is because through 'feedback' this is what has been decided as what men want to to see.
 

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That's what I thought. Most men I know are not into boob jobs.

Interesting is, though: Most women I know (married or not) find that men might say they don't like it, but really they do. (That means they hear the men saying that they don't like it, but they don't believe it). They are usually very confident and sure about that statement. Where's that coming from?

@Waiwera: Is it really feedback from men you get?
 

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I once told Hubs that I needed a lift. He asked me why? Then he went on to tell me why he loves my breasts so much :) I haven't thought about my breasts since. :)
 

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The idea that women don't believe men when they say they don't like fake boobs comes from porn.

You don't see many men watching 'average woman' porn, do ya? ;)

That shet sticks with women. They see you watching what you watch and they don't compare (in their minds) so they want to emulate what you jack off to, hoping you'll find them just as stimulating.

That's just my theory though. Porn and fake movie stars really have effed up our society regarding bodies and attraction.
 

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This guy prefers real. Some of the fake ones are actually grotesque or unnatural looking from what I've seen (but not experienced). I guess going too large will do that, or getting a poor surgeon could be another cause.

But if it is a question of self-image I suppose that is more important. I just wouldn't make it about "what men like" because it might be a 50-50 proposition.
 

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My first wife got them. They actually turned out very nice and didn't feel fake at all. Completely her choice, I didn't feel she needed them but she did break down her chest a lot in her younger years by riding horses with no bra...

So I will say, I don't dislike them if they are done just to enhance/firm. Women that get gargantuan ones are just disgusting to me. But I tend to prefer breasts on the smaller side anyway.
 

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If so many men prefer natural boobs why are porn stars, glamour models, centrefolds (almost) all lugging around all the ENORMOUS plastic boobs?
I would imagine it is because through 'feedback' this is what has been decided as what men want to to see.
Because the whole point of porn is total exaggeration.

Viewers want to see boobs-then give them enormous boobs.

Viewers want loud women-give the comical loud women.

Viewers want aggressive women-make them super horny animals.

Viewers want crazy sex-Give them over the top BJs, anal, hardcore stuff never seen in the real world.

Porn is to sex, what cartoons are to real life.
 

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That's what I thought. Most men I know are not into boob jobs.

Interesting is, though: Most women I know (married or not) find that men might say they don't like it, but really they do. (That means they hear the men saying that they don't like it, but they don't believe it). They are usually very confident and sure about that statement. Where's that coming from?

@Waiwera: Is it really feedback from men you get?
Oh sorry, I didn't say that clearly.

The makers or porn movies or playboy etc... must of had feedback over the years from men (who most of the porn/centre folds are aimed at) to what they want to see.

Men seem to be saying one thing but then buy/lust at the porn/picture of the girls with the fake boobs.
 

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I like to look at breasts, real or fake, but I wouldn't like the idea of my wife or one of my daughters carrying around dangerous stuff inside their bodies, or getting cut on unnecessarily.
 

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The idea that women don't believe men when they say they don't like fake boobs comes from porn.

You don't see many men watching 'average woman' porn, do ya? ;)
I'd challenge you on that as I believe that when you put two movies together, one with a nice, small breasted, girl and the other one with a "regular, modern porn-start", most guys would rather jack off to the first one. It's just that they get less and less available. The porn-industry seems to be a self-uphyping one (if that can ever become an english word).
 

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Oh sorry, I didn't say that clearly.

The makers or porn movies or playboy etc... must of had feedback over the years from men (who most of the porn/centre folds are aimed at) to what they want to see.

Men seem to be saying one thing but then buy/lust at the porn/picture of the girls with the fake boobs.
I suppose I could observe that romance novels usually have big bare-chested hunky types on the cover, therefore women prefer that type, so I should obtain some steroids and start lifting weights every day to try to look like that. I'm guessing I would be wrong.

I really think that images have to be more and more excessive just to be noticed. It's inflation. Yeah, guys attention will be drawn to them, but that isn't the be all and end all. We might look at them because they are grotesque, comical, gravity-defying, pneumatic, or whatever. That doesn't necessarily mean that we want to hang out with them.
 

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I agree with VK - huge fake boobs definitely draw attention to themselves, but I'd prefer smaller, natural ones for actual *use*.
 
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