My husband I got married when I was 16.. Now I am thirty. So everytime I want to go to a friend house ,or out with friends or on a trip. He feels I need to have his permission .. Now I do agree I need to discuss this with him but when he say no he thinks I should not go .. This result turns into a long heated fight!!!!( with him even threating divorce) My friends and family suggest That I should do what ever I want do.. I can not make him understand that. I have a father and I dont need his permission.