This past Saturday night I went to a wedding without my wife. When I came home I was told by my 7 year old daughter that my wife had invited our male neighbor over to the house to put together a chair we had bought earlier in the day.
Rather than ask me, she asked her mother if it was inappropriate to have this person come over. she also texted him later that night and thanked him for his help, adding that "between the two of them" I wasn't very good at putting things together. She later deleted the text before finding out I had read it.
I confronted her about it and she apologized, saying she shouldnt have done it.
I just can't get over 1) why she couldn't wait until I got home to ask me to put the chair together and 2) why she felt the need to put me down to the neighbor in text and then delete the message. She seems to have no remorse for deleting the message and says she just deleted because she wasn't going to talk to him again at this point.
Am I wrong to be angry? It's been 4 days and I'm still just as mad as I was on Saturday night. Am I being too jealous?
Rather than ask me, she asked her mother if it was inappropriate to have this person come over. she also texted him later that night and thanked him for his help, adding that "between the two of them" I wasn't very good at putting things together. She later deleted the text before finding out I had read it.
I confronted her about it and she apologized, saying she shouldnt have done it.
I just can't get over 1) why she couldn't wait until I got home to ask me to put the chair together and 2) why she felt the need to put me down to the neighbor in text and then delete the message. She seems to have no remorse for deleting the message and says she just deleted because she wasn't going to talk to him again at this point.
Am I wrong to be angry? It's been 4 days and I'm still just as mad as I was on Saturday night. Am I being too jealous?