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I felt the need to stop by this morning, and say that I am officially divorced as of this past August, and it was the best decision I've made!
I'm 27, was married at 24, only married for about 2.5 years, no kids luckily.... We dated 2 years before we got married... I just didn't marry the person I dated/was engaged to. A lot changed after we got married, and I'm glad I made the decision to not spend the rest of my life like that.
So he moved out in March of this year, and the divorce was finalized months later.
I am much happier now, and I had a great summer.
The lonliness is setting a little now, but I still cannot imagine being back with him. I'll take the lonliness over that anger and stress I felt any day... and that day is today! (And it was yesterday, and it'll be tomorrow, and I couldn't be happier!)
I wanted to write this, because in case there is anyone else out there wondering if they should hold on or walk away, I'm just saying that walking away isn't always a bad thing. The worst of it for me, was probably just the emarassment, and the guilt I felt when I told him that I was going through with the divorce.
We are friendly to each other, but dont' really talk at all now.
Weird to think that this man,, that I have absolutely no feelings for now, was someone that at one point, I thought I'd spend the rest of my life with.... unfortunately, that man didn't exist, and it was all a lie. I'm out there trying to find the real one! =)
I'm 27, was married at 24, only married for about 2.5 years, no kids luckily.... We dated 2 years before we got married... I just didn't marry the person I dated/was engaged to. A lot changed after we got married, and I'm glad I made the decision to not spend the rest of my life like that.
So he moved out in March of this year, and the divorce was finalized months later.
I am much happier now, and I had a great summer.
The lonliness is setting a little now, but I still cannot imagine being back with him. I'll take the lonliness over that anger and stress I felt any day... and that day is today! (And it was yesterday, and it'll be tomorrow, and I couldn't be happier!)
I wanted to write this, because in case there is anyone else out there wondering if they should hold on or walk away, I'm just saying that walking away isn't always a bad thing. The worst of it for me, was probably just the emarassment, and the guilt I felt when I told him that I was going through with the divorce.
We are friendly to each other, but dont' really talk at all now.
Weird to think that this man,, that I have absolutely no feelings for now, was someone that at one point, I thought I'd spend the rest of my life with.... unfortunately, that man didn't exist, and it was all a lie. I'm out there trying to find the real one! =)