Yay! I'm glad you feel better now. Time to change your user name! 
Haha. I think about this, too. And this is why I say if I *ever* for some freakish reason got married again, it would be a very quick thing at the justice of peace, no big wedding, no invitations, no nothing.Sometimes divorce is the best thing and I can surely attest to that.
Then you realize how much money you blew on the wedding if you'd saved the money instead....was it worth it?
My sister hired a JP and rented a beach house ove a weekend with 30 guests over for a large cookout late spring. All in all cost her less than 3 grand! Not because it wasn't affordable (the woman makes 6 figures) but from experience there are other things to spend money on.....lol Best wedding ever with nice pictures etc.Haha. I think about this, too. And this is why I say if I *ever* for some freakish reason got married again, it would be a very quick thing at the justice of peace, no big wedding, no invitations, no nothing.
This is why I seriously think it's so silly. All of it. And why I think I would never do it again.