Mothers become mothers when they get pregnant. Fathers become fathers once the baby is born. I was CRAZY during my pregnancy. An absolute nut! Then for an entire year after that.
I am normally pretty nice but I was an absolute *****. I said mean, hurtful things almost daily.
Ditching her until birth is a really bad idea. You need to be there for her or THAT will build resentment. It'll strengthen your relationship in the long run.
My boyfriend was not there for me my first pregnancy. I am still angry at him for it - it was 5 years ago. For the second pregnancy, he was perfect.
Don't avoid contact, or THAT will build resentment. Talk to her logically and calmly. Sit down with her at a restaurant or something and have the discussion.
She is going to say things she doesn't mean. It's hormones. You might say them back in retaliation but generally in my experience its girls who are more emotionally abusive..
Anyway.. Now I've got 2 children and I'm with the same guy. He stuck around. I respect him and the work he does.
I am normally pretty nice but I was an absolute *****. I said mean, hurtful things almost daily.
Ditching her until birth is a really bad idea. You need to be there for her or THAT will build resentment. It'll strengthen your relationship in the long run.
My boyfriend was not there for me my first pregnancy. I am still angry at him for it - it was 5 years ago. For the second pregnancy, he was perfect.
Don't avoid contact, or THAT will build resentment. Talk to her logically and calmly. Sit down with her at a restaurant or something and have the discussion.
She is going to say things she doesn't mean. It's hormones. You might say them back in retaliation but generally in my experience its girls who are more emotionally abusive..
Anyway.. Now I've got 2 children and I'm with the same guy. He stuck around. I respect him and the work he does.