Me and my wife have only been married a little over a year now. We had our first child 9 months ago. She recently started acting strange and when I tried to address it she denied anything being wrong. Then a few weeks ago i found messages on her phone between her and another guy. As I confronted her about this she told me she hasn't been happy since the birth of our son. She says i drove very far away. Her reasoning was because I would not shower every single day. I never went more than 3 days without a shower even though she thinks I went weeks without. I just didn't see it necessary seeing as all i would do was work and come home to do more work. As our fighting continued over the last few weeks she continued talking to this guy. I finally found that she has kissed him several times even she swore to me she hadnt. Our most recent altercation was the breaking point for both of us. She says she wants us back to the way we were just as I do. But she says she doesnt know how it will happen. She says she isnt attracted to me at all anymore. What do I do now? I started showering at least once a day and dressing as nice as possible all the time. Does anyone have advice for me please.