I have been with my husband for 11 years and he has physically cheated on me once and several times on computer and phone (emotional affairs). I used to work and make good money but got sick last year and now I'm totally dep. on him. He takes good care of me and says he loves me and he'll get help but it keeps happening. And he knows I'll check the phone logs!! I'm so miserable and don't know what to do. Please help.