@QuestionAssumptions I think you are misunderstanding much of what I am talking about. I am not really talking about population engineering. I am talking about reproductive rights of the individual and the individual's agency and ability to chose for themselves what is best for them. Frankly, if people say this will reduce world populations, I think that is good news and hope it does, but that is not what I am getting at at all.
I believe in the individuals right to choose their own reproductive and family dynamics. Yes that means if someone does not want to have any kids at all, I believe that is their right and their choice and no one should have the right to pressure or cajole of judge them otherwise and I think it is wrong for religious organizations and nosey aunts and intrusive grandmothers to pressure them otherwise.
But that also means that if some Amish or Morman woman truly and sincerely wants to have child after child until her uterus falls out and her pelvic bones break as she's walking down the hall, if that is her true informed decision, then I will also support her as long as she is able to properly support and care for those children.
Same is true for the men, if a guy truely and sincerely wants to toil in the fields 16 hours a day and live hand to mouth to support and feed a large family and he is not pressuring or coercing his partner against her will nor allowing himself to be pressured or coerced, then I also support his right as long as he is able to properly care for and support a large family.
HOWEVER, that is often not what is actually happening in those communities now is it. These aren't college educated, self supporting 25 year old women with professional careers with access to safe and reliable contraception that are making informed conscious decisions to have a dozen children. These are poorly educated and isolated teenage girls that are being sold off in marriage to older men and are being kept from being educated and denied access to contraception and are being compelled by religious leaders and community elders and even their own families to basically be sex slaves and underage breeding stock to create more sex slaves and breeding stock.
And I'm not sure the men have it a whole lot better even though they aren't the ones actually carrying and crapping out all the babies, They are the ones having to work the plows and bail the hay and shovel the manure 16 hours a day to keep them all fed. And sure, they get to bang the 15 year old at first, but how bitter and pissed off and stressed is that bride 10 years and 7 kids later. How pleasant being around all of that going to be?
That's where my personal beef is. I think it is evil and wrong and I hope people stand up for themselves and take back their own reproductive agency. If that causes some kind of population correction, then that is how it was meant to be.
I believe in the individuals right to choose their own reproductive and family dynamics. Yes that means if someone does not want to have any kids at all, I believe that is their right and their choice and no one should have the right to pressure or cajole of judge them otherwise and I think it is wrong for religious organizations and nosey aunts and intrusive grandmothers to pressure them otherwise.
But that also means that if some Amish or Morman woman truly and sincerely wants to have child after child until her uterus falls out and her pelvic bones break as she's walking down the hall, if that is her true informed decision, then I will also support her as long as she is able to properly support and care for those children.
Same is true for the men, if a guy truely and sincerely wants to toil in the fields 16 hours a day and live hand to mouth to support and feed a large family and he is not pressuring or coercing his partner against her will nor allowing himself to be pressured or coerced, then I also support his right as long as he is able to properly care for and support a large family.
HOWEVER, that is often not what is actually happening in those communities now is it. These aren't college educated, self supporting 25 year old women with professional careers with access to safe and reliable contraception that are making informed conscious decisions to have a dozen children. These are poorly educated and isolated teenage girls that are being sold off in marriage to older men and are being kept from being educated and denied access to contraception and are being compelled by religious leaders and community elders and even their own families to basically be sex slaves and underage breeding stock to create more sex slaves and breeding stock.
And I'm not sure the men have it a whole lot better even though they aren't the ones actually carrying and crapping out all the babies, They are the ones having to work the plows and bail the hay and shovel the manure 16 hours a day to keep them all fed. And sure, they get to bang the 15 year old at first, but how bitter and pissed off and stressed is that bride 10 years and 7 kids later. How pleasant being around all of that going to be?
That's where my personal beef is. I think it is evil and wrong and I hope people stand up for themselves and take back their own reproductive agency. If that causes some kind of population correction, then that is how it was meant to be.