I have a decision to make and seem unable to make it. My husband of nearly 23 years recently came to me and asked permission to pursue a flirtacious relationship with another. I can make the boundries and we could go from there. This could or could not include sex. I told him I would need to consider this and would get back to him. I do not have a problem with people that choose to have this type of lifestyle. I just don't know if this would work for me. We have 2 children who just turned 16 and 18 and I need to consider them as well. I have run just about every scenario over and over in my head and am feeling more and more confused. I haven't been sleeping well in days. I am angry, understanding, confused and freaked out. We were married very young and I know that this is coming from that. Do I give him some room for a while and go from there? Leave him? Tell him no way? How do I come to a decision?