OK, I'd like some advice. Me and my wife have had problems. She has hurt me and i feel like for a long time I haven't gotten the love/energy/passion that I've put in back. In short i feel like i can't do it anymore. I've decided that i'm going to focus on now and if i can be happy day to day with my wife i will stay and if not a will leave. No more waiting and working for the day she isn't depressed, is expressive towards me, can be happy, etc. My question is should i talk to her about this. I'm soooo sick of working for a solution and looking for love from her. Does this make sense?