i made a post on here not too long ago http://talkaboutmarriage.com/mens-clubhouse/55615-got-some-trust-issues.html and i'm overall done. the divorce is slow process and i considered maybe trying to work things out but it doesn't seem possible to do anything because i'm so angry and bitter towards her. even more so because she doesn't seem to understand in the slightest how i feel. so my question is how do you other guys deal with the hurt, the betrayal. The fact the my family will never be the same. the fact that i will only get to see my daughter half the time i deserve to see her...my wife has my heart and i don't think i'll ever get it back. to ever be able to share with someone else. everything is spinning out of control and i feel like i'm losing it. it's a fight every day for me to just not give up and fall into a depression.