, a friend of mine told me a story about his friend who is an executive in a large IT corporation, his friend's WW (wayward wife) was an executive in another large corporation who had an affair with her boss, the company's CEO!
He was 43 and his wife was 37, the CEO was 55.
Like in your case, the CEO was tall and very attractive and in a very good shape and physic!
The CEO was banging the wayward wife for 4 years in their house on their bed!
He divorced her and she left the marriage of 15 years with only her cloths!
How did he do it?!
So this man, the betrayed, felt something was off with his wife for months, and like you he installed VARs and hired a PI.. a week later he had all the evidence and heard everything on the VAR installed in their bedroom.
he heard, the sex, the wife asking the AP to finish inside her, screaming (Fill that f****g married p****y), he heard the CEO humiliating him (the husband) while they were in the act, at one point he tells her that you guys are trying for a baby, I just might get you pregnant, and she responded by yes, I want your baby, my womb is yours, breed me baby..
He wished that he didn't listen to the VAR because the PI's evidence was more than enough (pictures and videos).
It's like a switch flipped in him, he hated his wife, listening to the VAR was the switch, he had no prenup, so he decided to try something different and took advice from his lawyer to try it, if it didn't work they can revert back to the normal divorce proceedings maybe with some leverage, and there is no harm in trying this new approach!
He DID NOT confront his wife
, his wife doesn't know anything yet, she doesn't know that the husband found out about the affair, what he did, he immediately called the CEO (the affair partner), and told him everything and what type of evidence he has, dates and where all sex happened, and what was said when they were having sex, and gave him this option:
He will not expose the affair and will sign an NDA
with the lawyers (his, the CEO's and his wayward wife's) only if she leaves everything and walks out of the marriage with her cloths only!
The CEO keeps his job, she keeps her job and their reputation intact, no one know anything, all win/win!
If you know the corporate world, a CEO who gets caught in such a scandal it is basically the end for their career and most likely their family union (their wives will take them to the cleaners)!
It also applies to high executives as will (like his wayward wife)
It's a vey good deal for the CEO, he will lose nothing if the wayward wife agrees. so he agreed, and agreed he will talk with her and convince her!
The CEO makes the call, and breaks the news to her!
He tells her what evidence her husband has!
He tells her that this is the best deal, or else it will be the end of their careers especially hers, since she is young and God knows what type of jobs she can land in the future, it will be a disaster for both of them if she doesn't, but way more for her than him since he still has a lot of money, and he can simply retire and easily move to a different city/country, but not her, she is still building her future, he advised her not to refuse or else she lose everything that she built and worked for throughout the years, and she must not tell anyone not even her family, and this is the only chance where they can survive this!
Of course she was blindsided, her world collapsed, she knows having a shot in building a family and having kids is thrown out the window and probably for ever, not to mention her reputation.. Finding someone like her husband who is an executive himself and maybe becoming a CEO one day is impossible!
The betrayed husband phone blows up, text, calls, but no reply from him.. complete silence, he completely ghosted her!
She was trying to save her marriage (cake eat) but it didn't work, later the husband found that this was by far the hardest part for her (the ghosting like she doesn't exist)
At the end she agrees to the deal!
The lawyers calculated the assets she will be getting in the divorce, and when the divorce is final she has to pay the exact amount back as a settlement
in cash or in assets!
They all meet up at the betrayed husband lawyers office to sign the NDAs, they had to stop the meeting and take breaks a couple of times because the wife was in a bad state wasting most of the meeting trying to talk to her soon to be ex-husband and trying to save her marriage at the last minute, he refused and doesn't even look at her or talks to her.. she collapses and cry, rinse and repeat!
After the NDA singed by the betrayed husband, they start the divorce process like normal, using irreconcilable differences as the reason, and when the divorce was final, she returned all the cash and assets that was given to her by the court to her ex-husband!
Thus, walking out of the marriage with only her cloths!
Is it truthful?
Well I hope my friend wasn't lying to me, I have known him for years!
maybe you can get some ideas from it, talk to your lawyer, you never know!
What you guys think, such thing can work in GD case?