I am not sure whether I am in the correct section of this community; if this needs to be moved to another location, my apologies and please advise.
Anyway, a friend recommended this site to me.
Here is the shortest version of my story…
My wife (34) and I (40M) have been married for almost three years, together for five. We have no children. I recall—both with great fondness, but also with huge sadness—the first year and a half together. We could barely keep our hands off each other; our sex life was plentiful and varied. However, you can chart the slow but steady demise of our intimacy from the point I proposed to her.
The problem … well, I suppose there are two … so, the problems are: a) that it took me a long time to fully grasp that we were heading progressively to a ‘dead bedroom’, and b) when I did realize that I was in a DB, I certainly could have handled it better.
If that were the end of the story, I would just remain in DB communities for support. However, I now have reason to suspect that my wife is being unfaithful. I suppose what I am looking for is advice on how to uncover this discreetly and then, if the worst is imaginable, how to deal with the fallout.