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I don't know if this is for the Sex in Marriage section or not, but I will try.

My best friend's daughter (aged 28) walked into the TV room and saw her father watching some very hard core porn.

She was absolutely disgusted in the thought of her dad watching that kind of degrading to women porn.

She doesn't want to speak to her father now and her mother (my friend) is totally disgusted in him as well and doesn't know how to handle the situation.

It is Thanksgiving next weekend here in Canada, and my friend would like to have all the family for dinner, but her daughter says she can't stand the sight of her dad now.

My friend is asking me how I think she should handle it all, but I have no idea.

Any suggestions?
 

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When you said 28 I'm assuming the daughter is 28? Sorry head clogged from sinus mess. Just making sure I got it right!

Maybe they should hold a family meeting, and the daughter needs to tell her dad what she saw and how disgusted she was by it. Does he even know she walked in?
 

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Ya, well that being said, maybe the dad should make sure he's alone before viewing his porn. How gross, and no wonder she doesn't want to talk to him right now! Lots of us get the heebie-jeebies when we think of our parents doing anything sexual! Walking in on Dad and his hard core porn? Yuck. Mental images assaulting my brain right now!
 

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Ya, well that being said, maybe the dad should make sure he's alone before viewing his porn. How gross, and no wonder she doesn't want to talk to him right now! Lots of us get the heebie-jeebies when we think of our parents doing anything sexual! Walking in on Dad and his hard core porn? Yuck. Mental images assaulting my brain right now!
:lol: Exactly.

The women he was looking at were probably close to his daughters age too, so that might be part of why shes bothered by it.
 

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friend should tell her daughter to stop being such an entitled little princess and get over it. So her dad was watching some porn,yeah it's gross to catch a parent doing ANYTHING sexual but geez, grow up!

edited to add, i do agree dad should be more discreet next time! but if she's 28, was it some sort of pop in and say hello visit? maybe he thought for sure he was alone and she just barged in and got all emotionally scarred?
 

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If watching the porn was all he was doing, she should count her blessings.
I agree !! If he's going to be crucified for not locking the door then i really feel for him :confused: ???

He could be doing so much worse than watching porn ..... perhaps his wife should browse thru some of these threads and start counting as Sbrown suggested ???
 

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You said the wife was disgusted too..so I'm assuming she didn't know her husband watched porn either? Wow what a double whammy! ;)
 

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...from now on I'm going to make as much banging around as possible when dropping in on my parents, just to make sure I never have to post on here:

"Guess what guys, walked in on my parents acting out a BDSM scene my mom read in '50 Shades'..."
 

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Yes, the daughter is 28.

When she walked in, she screamed and called him disgusting and he hasn't said a word about it since.

My friend is also disgusted that her daughter saw it and is so mad about it, she hasn't said a word to the husband either but is keeping her distance from him.

This is a VERY religious family also.
 

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I agree !! If he's going to be crucified for not locking the door then i really feel for him :confused: ???

He could be doing so much worse than watching porn ..... perhaps his wife should browse thru some of these threads and start counting as Sbrown suggested ???
I have a feeling Sbrown was thinking 'lucky she didn't walk in on him in a slightly more awkward moment', such as him jerking off or something.

Christ, it's embarassing enough walking in on someone who's using the toilet...
 

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When you said 28 I'm assuming the daughter is 28? Sorry head clogged from sinus mess. Just making sure I got it right!

Maybe they should hold a family meeting, and the daughter needs to tell her dad what she saw and how disgusted she was by it. Does he even know she walked in?
A family meeting? Sounds like you're suggesting an ambush. Personally I would not react very well at all to my CHILDREN ambushing me and telling me how disgusted they are. That would earn them a big FU. The only one who has a legitimate issue is the wife. And if he's watching porn in the living room, I have to wonder how she's doing in the bedroom.
 

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Ugh!

That is just a bad, creepy day for everybody.

She is 28 - she should be able to handle the horrible wrongness of it. Grow up. At the very least she should be able to pretend that it didnt happen.

OR - she can make a big deal out of it and throw an embargo on family functions and make a scene and say 'like totally, GROSS' and behave like a 15 year old. I would tell her to grow up and let it go.

I would also tell daddy to maybe keep his pants on in the TV room when people are in the house. Moron. WTF.

But you know what - lots of people have stories like this. She isnt the first person to catch someone masturbating or watching porn... or both. Even a parent. She is old enough to deal.
 

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Yes, the daughter is 28.

When she walked in, she screamed and called him disgusting and he hasn't said a word about it since.

My friend is also disgusted that her daughter saw it and is so mad about it, she hasn't said a word to the husband either but is keeping her distance from him.

This is a VERY religious family also.
I suspect the father is embarrassed and his daughter and wife hurt by what he was doing. However, I think it needs to be addressed like grown ups. They need to all sit down and talk about it.
 
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