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Well, seems like the dating world is a waste of my time....lol, weeks ago, I went on a few dates, and I thought I would share the craziness of what's out there. First of all, let me prefice this by saying I am an intelligent woman, who has good intution, or so I thought.
Maybe it's the dating site I'm on....lol I'm laughing, because if you don't laugh you'll go mad.
The first guy looked ok by his picture. We met, and I was very disappointed, to put in mildly. And btw, a lot of people lie on those sites...lol. He was shorter than he said, he had chapped lips, the kind where skin is peeling and hanging by a thread. He was very underdressed, jeans were kind of torn (not the in style kind either), and well, he was a mess. So we meet, first thing he says "I need to use the washroom", I was like ok, he enters the men's room, and I'm waiting for him to come out, 5 min's goes by, nada, 10min goes by..nada. I was feeling kind of cheeky, and brave, so I left. Never heard from him again. I thought to myself either he's doing his "business" in there, which totally disgusted me, what if he doesn't wash his hands?, then the thought of drug use came to mind, and so I bolted out there in a quick jog.
The other date I went on, pic was nice, chatted for a couple of weeks, seemed like it was ok to meet. Well, it would have been nice if he told me he had gained a substancial amount of weight before we met....grrrr. I don't have anything against people that are overweight, but hey, liars..nope. So, I did the polite thing, had a coffee, then he asks if I had eaten, I should have said yes, but he was pretty "normal", other than the lying...lol. So, we had dinner. He basically kept telling me to eat more during the whole meal, I'm petite, and don't have a big apetite. I was becoming a bit nausous, then he orders desert...OMG. And yep, kept telling me to eat more. I was ill at the end of dinner, said good bye, went home and went to sleep, I could barely move....ugh
So, I guess it really takes a while to meet your match, I just feel like I'm wasting my time, and I don't really have the patience for this anymore. I almost feel like there are better pickings in the grocery stores....lol
I guess I don't have a question, just thought I'd share my dating life.....my ex keeps asking about my dating life, lol, I don't have one I say, because really, I don't. I'm on a break from it all, have been for a few weeks, and then Mr. Unavailable shows up in my life again....ugh
kick me hard.
Maybe it's the dating site I'm on....lol I'm laughing, because if you don't laugh you'll go mad.
The first guy looked ok by his picture. We met, and I was very disappointed, to put in mildly. And btw, a lot of people lie on those sites...lol. He was shorter than he said, he had chapped lips, the kind where skin is peeling and hanging by a thread. He was very underdressed, jeans were kind of torn (not the in style kind either), and well, he was a mess. So we meet, first thing he says "I need to use the washroom", I was like ok, he enters the men's room, and I'm waiting for him to come out, 5 min's goes by, nada, 10min goes by..nada. I was feeling kind of cheeky, and brave, so I left. Never heard from him again. I thought to myself either he's doing his "business" in there, which totally disgusted me, what if he doesn't wash his hands?, then the thought of drug use came to mind, and so I bolted out there in a quick jog.
The other date I went on, pic was nice, chatted for a couple of weeks, seemed like it was ok to meet. Well, it would have been nice if he told me he had gained a substancial amount of weight before we met....grrrr. I don't have anything against people that are overweight, but hey, liars..nope. So, I did the polite thing, had a coffee, then he asks if I had eaten, I should have said yes, but he was pretty "normal", other than the lying...lol. So, we had dinner. He basically kept telling me to eat more during the whole meal, I'm petite, and don't have a big apetite. I was becoming a bit nausous, then he orders desert...OMG. And yep, kept telling me to eat more. I was ill at the end of dinner, said good bye, went home and went to sleep, I could barely move....ugh
So, I guess it really takes a while to meet your match, I just feel like I'm wasting my time, and I don't really have the patience for this anymore. I almost feel like there are better pickings in the grocery stores....lol
I guess I don't have a question, just thought I'd share my dating life.....my ex keeps asking about my dating life, lol, I don't have one I say, because really, I don't. I'm on a break from it all, have been for a few weeks, and then Mr. Unavailable shows up in my life again....ugh
kick me hard.