Just put on a shirt from a load I did last night and it smells great and is sooo soft. Now here's my story. I'll try to keep as short and detailed as I can. Some of my older post tell the early situ.
It has been a couple of years since my wife told me she was not in love with me anymore. We went through three different MC's and she started with a PT for sex therapy and stopped after 2 sessions. Not much has changed. She still shows no affection or compassions for my needs for any affection or recognition I exist. She has become the classic fence sitter and gives me no information. She tells me she cares about me but has no desire or passion to be anything but friends. She has also said she says she wishes things were different, but does not know how to change the way she feels all the while she does nothing to change anything at all. When we have a talk (99.9 it's me talking until I ramble stupidly) and I tell her I'm close to giving up hope for us she is undoubtedly sad and upset. I am stuck in a place where I will soon be forced to make the decision to end the marriage. I believe she is fence sitting because of fear of the unknown. With me she has a responsible, faithful, financially secure man that loves her. Trust me I am by know means perfect and have made some mistakes in this marriage. The difference between her and I is I acknowledge and correct my mistakes while she just continues to accept her short comings and blame her past and me for them. I told her last night that I am choosing to no longer love her (really hard to do BTW). I am just not sure if I want to give up on her. I believe she would live this crappy marriage forever before making a decision. Tell me what you think or ask me any questions. Just let me know if I start to ramble supidly
It has been a couple of years since my wife told me she was not in love with me anymore. We went through three different MC's and she started with a PT for sex therapy and stopped after 2 sessions. Not much has changed. She still shows no affection or compassions for my needs for any affection or recognition I exist. She has become the classic fence sitter and gives me no information. She tells me she cares about me but has no desire or passion to be anything but friends. She has also said she says she wishes things were different, but does not know how to change the way she feels all the while she does nothing to change anything at all. When we have a talk (99.9 it's me talking until I ramble stupidly) and I tell her I'm close to giving up hope for us she is undoubtedly sad and upset. I am stuck in a place where I will soon be forced to make the decision to end the marriage. I believe she is fence sitting because of fear of the unknown. With me she has a responsible, faithful, financially secure man that loves her. Trust me I am by know means perfect and have made some mistakes in this marriage. The difference between her and I is I acknowledge and correct my mistakes while she just continues to accept her short comings and blame her past and me for them. I told her last night that I am choosing to no longer love her (really hard to do BTW). I am just not sure if I want to give up on her. I believe she would live this crappy marriage forever before making a decision. Tell me what you think or ask me any questions. Just let me know if I start to ramble supidly