Wife prefers monthly sex to sex every 6 weeks. I would prefer daily sex. My research suggests that neither of us is "abnormal" and that any amount of sex between a couple is the right amount if the couple agrees on it. We are married with children. Marriage is eleven plus years in. Seems silly to end that because we have different sexual needs. I don't want any form of obligatory sex or pity sex from her. We have talked about it in the past. Sometimes that leads to a feast of sex which then fades to famine. I am pretty convinced that this is not going to change. There may be a period of feast again but it will quickly fade to famine. So what is the answer? Are men and women just way too different when it comes to their sexual needs. That's what my wife constantly tells me. So what is she telling me? To masturbate to excessive levels to fill the gap? Is that the answer? To fill in the gaps elsewhere? What's the answer? Are there any answers?