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PROVEN SPOUSE OF 25+YRS CHEATED WITH LOCAL FRIEND. SO WE HAD CONFRONTATION THAT LEAD TO AGREEMENT TO GET SOME COUNCLING. HE CHOSE WHO WENT THAT DAY.HE AGREED NO FURTHER CONTACT. NEXT AM HAD SEX WENT TO WORK AFTER I LEFT HE WENT TO HER HOUSE. SO THE FOLLOWING DAY SAID HE WAS NOT WITH HER DROVE TO WHERE THEY WERE AN NEEDLESS TO SAY HE WAS MOVED OUT THAT DAY. AFTER A LONG EMOTIONAL WEEKEND. HE CAME TO SPEAK TO ME AN AGREED NEED ALOT OF WORK BUT WOULD TRY. HE WAS TO HAVE NO CONTACT WITH HER. NOW HE WAS ABSENT FOR HOLIDAY SAID EMBARASSED TO BE ROUND FAMILY DAY OFF REMOVED BATTERY FROM PHONE THINK BEING TRACKED. IF YOUR DOING NOTHING WRONG WHY WORRY? YOU CHEATED YOU SHOULD EXPECT DISTRUST. EACH TIME SUSPECT THEY ARE TOGETHER ODD THINGS HAPPEN LIKE LOCK MISSING ON CAR DOOR FLAT TIRES. HIS ANSWER COINCIDENCE OR A LIE. I TRULY HAVE BEEN TYING TO WORK ON THINGS HE ADDRESSED AS MY ISSUES. HE SEEMS VERY UNHAPPY TO BE HERE THOUGH HE WANTED TO COME BACK. NEED TO KNOW HE REALLY HAS STOPPED CONTACT TO TRY TO MOVE FORWARD. TRUST VERY MUCH ISSUE. HURT COULD BE BLINDING. I WANT TO GIVE HONEST EFFORT. BUT ? IS HOW CAN I CONFIRM HIS COMMITMENT.