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My relationship has a lot of issues aside from all the other crap our sex life has a lot to be desired...on my end. My husband wants to have sex and will ask for a BJ or sex regularly. When my drive is up his is down and vice versa. Were in our early 30's and are only doing it once a month if that and for me that just isn't ok. He is exclusively pleasured about once a week. Meanwhile I'm never getting there because he just can't last long enough during that one time per month. He masturbates daily and complains about my weight (which I'm working on after our 2nd child). I also struggle with the big O when I'm on top which is all he wants and does not want to oblige when I ask for him to take control. I FEEL LIKE I'M ****ING A DEAD FISH. Its all just so effed up that we're not on the same wavelength and I want to help improve things for both of us. Are there any suggestions?