if you are "looking" for a reason then you already have one, the fact that you want to have a clear mind about what you have been planning on and hoping for doesn't change much.thanks for the responses, I've gone on line to see what the facts are all say something similar but some say very unlikely to get Crab lice from linens. The fact he went to the Dr. first without telling me and then showed up with the Meds. has bothered me, also he did not have one on him, baffles me? How did I get them? Will I ever get an honest answer, he stated over and over he did not have sex with anyone. Ok if its linens how do you get crabs in bed if you have your Underpants on or Pjs? My husband had a past when he was younger, also when we were first Married he would rent Dirty movies and wanted me to watch them with him, I told him we diden't need that in our Marriage. Our Marriage is going down hill anyhow because he always resorts to name calling, its such a cycle he treats me bad therefore I hate having sex with him its a merry go round. then I think of the Crabs I got and I'm hoping I can nail him with it then if its over I won't feel so bad for ending the marriage.
That is from the Center for Disease Control.Rarely, infestation can be spread through contact with an infested person's bed linens, towels, or clothes.
little more understanding and not so Judgemental.
Just end it from what I see you have little to nothing left anyways and you can never get it back even if he proved himself right.I'm hoping I can nail him with it then if its over I won't feel so bad for ending the marriage.