Let the counselor lead the session. The first session is usually a "get to know you" where the counselor asks the questions. May even talk to each of you alone to find out what your objective is.
Don't expect too much from the first meeting.
If the counselor mentions the affair is your fault because you didn't meet your wife's needs - find another counselor.
Problems in the marriage are usually 50/50. Choosing to have an affair is 100% on her.
Don't expect too much from the first meeting.
If the counselor mentions the affair is your fault because you didn't meet your wife's needs - find another counselor.
Problems in the marriage are usually 50/50. Choosing to have an affair is 100% on her.