How did your counselling go? I have been trying to get back with my ex and two sons for the past six months. She said she doesnt fancy me anymore. We spent a lot of tie together lately and got on wll and she said she would like if it worked as single parent life is tough and the boys love me. She just doesnt fancy me any more. We eventually agreed to MC and it was a disaster. On the first and only visit the MC asked us if we were both fully comitted. I said yes and she (honestly) said no. When the session was coming to a close the MC said we werent ready for counselling. That was it. Shes off the hook after 6 months of me doing everythng right to win my family back. Im sick and now its kinda been confirmed bny an expert she was right and if i said the counselor was wrong it would be just typical me not accepting reality. Im just being a good dad now as its a rough time of the year to start it all over again wioth christmas coming and we have kids. Im so down but im coping on the ouitside.