No. But there are two ways of looking at this:-If a woman contacted you over Facebook and told you your spouse cheated several years ago, but he denies it, would you be able to completely let it go?
Forgive me for being slow. So, what you are saying is his current wife was the affair partner that broke up his first marriage? And now the current wife doesn't believe that her husband could cheat on her, since he came up with such a great excuse? If so, that is rich!I recently spoke to his ex wife to confess to her. She then told me he was a serial cheat and told me stories of what he and his now wife did to her while he was married to her. It enraged me because he said he had never done it before. I was so dumb and naive. I had felt guilt and held the secret for so long I just had to let it out.
If some random dude called me to tell me my wife cheated on me the year we were engaged 4 or 5 yr ago I'd tell him to f/o.I'm the woman he cheated with 4 years ago and I recently confessed. I'm certain that he denied it but it is true. I'm just wondering if what i said had any change in her mind - do you think she just let it go or do you think there is doubt now?
I recently spoke to his ex wife to confess to her. She then told me he was a serial cheat ... It enraged me because he said he had never done it before.
Yes that is what I'm saying...she helped him cheat on his first wife and then he cheated with me. I messaged her and she seemed to believe me....then after talking to him she said to quit stalking her and get a life. I was only trying to help her, I didn't know he was a serial cheat.
What I am asking though, is do you think this has upset her? Even if he denies it, do you think she has doubt in her mind now? I told her what goes around comes around. He cheated with me while he was engaged to this woman.
You have let her know. It should not be a surprise to her because she already knows he's a cheater.It bothered me all these years but I didn't deal with it. I knew of his ex wife and messaged her with the confession. Then she told me all about his past and how he is a serial liar/cheat. I found out things he had told me were a total lie and it upset me. I feel better now that I let the toxic secret out.
What do you mean when you say that she "helped him cheat on his first wife"?It ended when he got married. I was naive and lonely and I got sucked in. He cheated on his fiance (now his second wife) with me. His second wife helped him cheat on his first wife. I told her what goes around comes around.
Don't feel quilty. You exposed what he did and that's what you should have done. Now it's not on your problem any more whether his wife believes him or not. She surely won't have blind trust and will pay attention.I was motivated by wanting to tell the truth. And I felt that she had a right to know - I bet he has dome it since, he is a Dr. after all.