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I recently found out after seeing my wifes cell phone records that she is having an EA with a truck driver who delivers products to her work place. we have been married 27 years and
no past problems. I have not been very supportive lately or communicating with her. The marriage counselers that I spoke to
said this situation is partially my fault. also she nolonger wears her wedding rings and sex is out of the picture. I confronted her about talking and texting this person several times a week from
her job and after work before she gets home. Her response was defensive and we are just friends. she also refused to stop the
relationship. She said if i could not deal with it to leave. I asked if she wanted a divorce and got no response. She thinks she has blocked me from her cell data but i can monitor it. I have noway to see her texts. She guards her phone 24/7. All i know about this guy is that he is single, has a girfriend and talks to alot of other women beside my wife. I called his cell to confront him and he did not answer. he returned my call got my voice mail and contacted my wife. then we had a big argument over him.
I need advice on this.
no past problems. I have not been very supportive lately or communicating with her. The marriage counselers that I spoke to
said this situation is partially my fault. also she nolonger wears her wedding rings and sex is out of the picture. I confronted her about talking and texting this person several times a week from
her job and after work before she gets home. Her response was defensive and we are just friends. she also refused to stop the
relationship. She said if i could not deal with it to leave. I asked if she wanted a divorce and got no response. She thinks she has blocked me from her cell data but i can monitor it. I have noway to see her texts. She guards her phone 24/7. All i know about this guy is that he is single, has a girfriend and talks to alot of other women beside my wife. I called his cell to confront him and he did not answer. he returned my call got my voice mail and contacted my wife. then we had a big argument over him.
I need advice on this.