I have a very strange family dynamic. Im also a childless mother ( I'm a mother figure to many people). I've basically adopted my little sister since her home life is destructive. I also take care of developmentally/mentally disabled adults. I feel like even though I've not birthed a child, I am a worthy mother figure. My problem is my mother wanting grandchildren. Not asking when, but demanding I get pregnant. She is physically and mentally disabled and I also take care of her (hence why I take care of my sister). I know she's not in sound mind or body, but it still hurts my soul that my mother says this. She also knows my history of miscarriages. She will often argue that adopting is just inherenting someone else's broken child, which is incredibly messed up. I've witnessed adoption and its a beautiful thing. How do you think I should put a stop to this?