Actually in my mid, going on late 30's. The mess according to my attorney is 6 -12 months. She's actually in her early 40's. Which apparently from what I hear is a prime time for some woman to start going a little haywire.@Captainjacksparrow84: What has your attorney said about the timeline for separating finances, separate maintenance, divorce? In your state, how long does the whole mess take? In other words, when are you free to begin living your new life without the STBXW hanging around bothering you? I am guessing you are in your very early thirties, so a lifetime awaits you to meet/date women worthy of your time. You will likely be very surprised how much fun you will have and how much less stress will be in your life. The quicker you are shed of the serial cheater the happier you will be.
You are already realizing that not doing all of the housework frees up a lot of time to do things you enjoy,