?? Conversation with myself.. sure.
But to bring it up later with spouse & say... "I wanted to say xxx to you when we were fighting last month". Not too much. but sometimes.
Edit:
(But my marriage isn't the best, so don't really read above as "advice" .
Just questioning wether you were talking about saying stuff after a conversation is over... Bringing it up again after you have thought of a good comeback??)
But to bring it up later with spouse & say... "I wanted to say xxx to you when we were fighting last month". Not too much. but sometimes.
Edit:
(But my marriage isn't the best, so don't really read above as "advice" .
Just questioning wether you were talking about saying stuff after a conversation is over... Bringing it up again after you have thought of a good comeback??)