I don’t know what else to do. My wife of 15 years acts as if I am her employee and she is the boss. I can’t be around her or talk to her through the phone/text without it turning into another chore for me to complete. She CONSTANTLY tells me to do things and it's getting very annoying. Sometimes she asks me to do things, like load or unload the dishwasher, while she is sitting on the couch on her phone. I can’t talk to her about how her constant “order giving” makes me feel because then she’ll turn it around on me to accuse me of never helping out. Whenever I ask her to do things she gives me an excuse as to why she can’t do it and I can. If I sit down and talk to her about this she’ll get very defensive and a fight will happen. Last night, I was busy doing something else when she called my name out three times in the span of 15 minutes to do random things around the house. I can’t take it anymore but I also don’t want to face the fight that is sure to happen. I need advice!