I have been considering divorce for several months now. I have talked to my husband many times about this. He get very upset and does not agree. We have been married now for almost 3 years and we dated for 4 years before that. I am scared to throw all that away and then realize I made the wrong decision. The issues I have with my husband and our marriage may seem minute to some people and not anything to divorce over, but they are important to me. Over the last 5 years that my husband I have lived together, these same issues have surfaced again and again. We discuss the problems and we both agree to change and respect each other more. Usually that last several months and then it happens again. About 3 months ago, these issues got on my mind again and I decided that I was finished trying. Now my husbands promises me that it will be different. He says that now he sees that it is coming down to this that he doesn't want to lose me. I am trying to get my heart back into this, but at this point I don't know if that is what I want. I don't have any respect for my husband. I am so scared that I will make the wrong decision. I need someone to talk to about this.