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Common sense, especially when it comes to matters of social norms can be misleading on complex matters such as this.
Yes, I probably must be missing something. It would be interesting to know from someone who actually has this fetish to know what the turn on is for them.

My wife asked me if I would wear her knickers, if she said it was a turn on for her. I hesitated and said that I didn't think I cold go through with it. I am otherwise up for any fetish but being her laughing stock for some sort of humiliation thing really made me uncomfortable. I don't think I am comfortable at all in the humiliation role.
 

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Kinks are strange. They seem so natural to the people who have them, and so inexplicable to the ones who don't share that particular kink.

Since my wife doesn't have kinks, I don't really know how I'd react if she asked me to indulge her with something that made me uncomfortable. I'd like to say that I'd be happy to do it to please her, but don't really know until it happens.

Yes, I probably must be missing something. It would be interesting to know from someone who actually has this fetish to know what the turn on is for them.

My wife asked me if I would wear her knickers, if she said it was a turn on for her. I hesitated and said that I didn't think I cold go through with it. I am otherwise up for any fetish but being her laughing stock for some sort of humiliation thing really made me uncomfortable. I don't think I am comfortable at all in the humiliation role.
 

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OP - can you clarify the nature of his fetish? Just based on "research" I've conducted, there's a pretty wide range on that particular area. I think folks on this thread have jumped to the conclusion that he's into the more extreme end. If he just likes seeing pretty pictures of women and you're onboard with him browsing Porn, then it's probably a pretty minor kink.
 

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I had a friend (she passed away several years ago) who made a nice amount of money on eBay; she was an excellent seamstress, and she made fancy lacy panties in mens' sizes. The key word on the auctions was "Sissy Baby"; of course, they were all private auctions/sales so that the bidder couldn't be seen.
 

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kinks are like attractions at an amusement park. They are all potential triggers for a chemical release in your brain of the feel good drugs. . You just have to figure out which attractions you enjoy.
 

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I’m 35 with 2 kids and one on the way. I’ve been married to my husband almost 10 years and thought I knew everything. What makes him who he is... thoughts feelings emotions etc. we both grew up in religious families and have an typical marriage with what I feel or felt was great intimacy.

I’m writing because I’m wondering if other married women have discovered things there husbands are “into” that you didn’t know or had to “find out”. In the past 2 months I’ve discovered my husband has an underwear obsession that if I’m honest has caught me by surprise. The internet I’ve discovered refers to it as a “panty fetish” and though this is all very new to me still I’m realizing it’s not tied to his sexuality.

With that being said, am I the only wife experiencing this or things like it. Do I tell him I know or keep seeing how deep the obsession goes? Confused I guess. Is this normal?
Idk what panty fetish is. Buuut... hopefully he likes seing and collecting it, not wearing it?? Good luck, OP.
 
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