My husband has recently admitted that he is a sex/pornography addict. This was completely out of the blue, and I had no idea after years of dating and marriage. The addiction consists of internet porn and acting out in inappropriate conversations with acquaintances through messaging and face to face conversation. I am totally confused, as I do not understand this addiction and I feel completely betrayed and have lost all respect and trust in him. How can he say he loves me and still be continuing to do all of these things behind my back for years???