So me and my husband have only been married for about 5 months, going to be six months on New Years. He works construction and has really long days, like if he comes home around 6 thats considered early for us. I go to school but only one day a week and I have a part-time job, I'm also really involved in church so that takes up a lot of time as well. Sorry just wanted to explain the situation before I jumped into the story. Lately he has been getting upset with me because he thinks that I don't do enough, that he works really hard all day and that I just sit around because sometimes he comes home and the house isn't spotless and theres not always food waiting for him on the table, and I don't understand why. I mean yes I do get a little lazy because it is kind of annoying to do the same exact thing every single day but I don't complain about it, and recently our washing machine stopped working. I mean it works but it takes like twice as long to do anything. So I said I was going to go to the laundromat today but decided against it because our new washing machine is arriving in two days so I figured I would wash the absolutely necessary clothes and finish everything else when the new washing machine came and when I told him this he got really upset that apparently I always take the easy and lazy way out of things and that he works so hard everyday and I'm just sit around at home and I tried to explain to him that I didn't see the point of doing all the laundry today when I could just finish it in a couple days instead of going to the laundromat and spending $20. Could anybody please explain to me why he's acting like this??