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Hello. I'm not sure what to do. Recently I found my fiance cheating. Although he said it wasn't cheating because they didn't have sex they only tested and talked on the phone. I find that worse because it Is emotional cheating. This person was surposed to be my friend. It all started by her telling him that he looked sexy. He claims to me that he doesn't like her that he just liked the ego boost he got from talking to her. But I feel like I'm in denial by believeing him. This has been going on for two years. Could it all be a ego trip. Or am I still being played. Two years seems very long. What should I do :-(
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I have looked yet. How would I get that info
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Who is your cell carrier?

Does your bill come in the mail? Or do you get an ebill?

We have T-Mobile. I can sign on to the site and get a print out of a list of all incoming/outgoing calls and the number/dates for texts going both ways.

Some people here also know how to get the old texts off of cell phones... there is a thread somewhere about evidence gathering too.
I have Verizon. I get bills in the mail and I can view online
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My son has Verizon. I just looked at one of his bills. (he's in college so I pay his cell bill.. so I'm not snooping.)

It only shows a summary of his calls and texts... like 435 txt messages last month.

You can probably get a break down online.
I just tried and all it will show is the summery
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Ask the friend to start texting you flirty lines while you with your partner. Have a special smile on when you text back. See how comfortable will be your partner with this
Lmao great ideal pandorabox he needs to worrie. Let's him feel it. Then say it's nothing. See if he over reacts. Bet he wouldn't be as nice and forgiving as me
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Please don't play these games. Just throw his a$$ out the door. You deserve better than this.
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Lmao great ideal pandorabox he needs to worrie. Let's him feel it. Then say it's nothing. See if he over reacts. Bet he wouldn't be as nice and forgiving as me
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If you to worry about the forgiving then use the trick my friend did. She was in similar situation and she asked me to SMS her over and over. We just talked kids, work and normal stuff but like 20 - 30 SMS a day - mostly when she was at home. She would smile and SMS back. To make it work - she password protected the phone. When hubby demanded the true she simply said she is talking to me but she won't give him a password as checking her phone is violation of her privacy. In the end it was easy - I will show you mine when you show me yours. He wouldn't , turned the whole discussion into joke but his texting stopped.:lol:
We have been together for 7 years this Feb.
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High school sweethearts? You're too young. It rarely works out. And two of those 7 years he's been having an affair? Move on. I know it's hard, but move on. A few lonely nights now are worth dodging a wasted life.
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