So about a month ago I confronted my husband’s other woman. After he had not come home for the weekend and his car and hers was at a motel. She is a coworker of his. She to was married and has three kids. My husband and I have been together 21 years and two boys in high school.
He was so mad at me because I turned his phone off, took all the money in his account and text her husband. I have not stood up to him for a very long time. I also left for a week. Then he was trying to push my buttons to get me to fight with him. I have yet but he went to stay with her. Only took backpack with two pants and sweatshirts. He is also in the service and got and awarded and had to write bio and said he has been married for 20 years with two kids. He said he is not divorcing me and he still hasn’t packed his clothes and moved his stuff. He doesn’t want friends or family to know. Also he still wants to go camping and on weekend trip with my mom and friends. The other woman has been trying to get me to kick him. Her husband cousin dated my sister and has been telling them things so the would get back to me. For instance that my husband was taking her and her kids to Virginia when he goes for training. Well for one he doesn’t want any one to know and two his brother is stationed there. Then over the weekend I was telling my mom my friend has four wheeler for sale and he wants me and him to buy it. Oh and he asked me how I was this weekend I told him ok. He said just okay. I told him what do you want my to say. I asked him how his new relationship was going and he said not good. He has told my mom twice he wasn’t happy and she asked if he loved the other woman and he said no.I just don’t know what to do???
He was so mad at me because I turned his phone off, took all the money in his account and text her husband. I have not stood up to him for a very long time. I also left for a week. Then he was trying to push my buttons to get me to fight with him. I have yet but he went to stay with her. Only took backpack with two pants and sweatshirts. He is also in the service and got and awarded and had to write bio and said he has been married for 20 years with two kids. He said he is not divorcing me and he still hasn’t packed his clothes and moved his stuff. He doesn’t want friends or family to know. Also he still wants to go camping and on weekend trip with my mom and friends. The other woman has been trying to get me to kick him. Her husband cousin dated my sister and has been telling them things so the would get back to me. For instance that my husband was taking her and her kids to Virginia when he goes for training. Well for one he doesn’t want any one to know and two his brother is stationed there. Then over the weekend I was telling my mom my friend has four wheeler for sale and he wants me and him to buy it. Oh and he asked me how I was this weekend I told him ok. He said just okay. I told him what do you want my to say. I asked him how his new relationship was going and he said not good. He has told my mom twice he wasn’t happy and she asked if he loved the other woman and he said no.I just don’t know what to do???