Ok so here's my story. My husband and I have been married for 8 years and together for 15. By no means has it been perfect but we always seem to brush off the problems someway somehow. There has never been any other major issues other than the normal financial/ stress about job and kids issues. Lately (I would say for about 6 months) he has been disconnected from me and the kids. I thought he was dealing with the stress of getting a new job and the fact the job has a long commute. He has also had weight issues and other health related problems. Well just the other day on the 2nd or 3rd of July he became really irritable for no reason and wasn't speaking to me. On the afternoon of the 4th of July he was leaving for work and didn't even say bye. He works nights so I don't see him until around 7 am. The next day I hadn't heard from him so I texted him to see when he would be home and he explained that "He wasn't coming home today". I was shocked and asked why. His response was this "I wanted to tell you this in person and I'm sorry but I'm not happy and yes there is someone else. " I was in complete shock and didn't know what to say. Tried calling back numerous times and he didn't call me back until later that afternoon. He had slept in his car, near his job so he could think. He then tells me he's sorry but it's just not going to work. He then tells me about the other girl and said he's basically emotionally attached to her and that he can't stop his feelings and he doesn't have any feelings for me. He agreed to got to counseling but keeps saying "it's just not going anywhere" Needless to say I'm scared, lost , hurt and confused. Please help!