I think that have your age and when you got married mixed up above.
How old is your husband?
About your wedding night. It sounds like this was the first time for sex between the two of you. Was it the first time for him in his life?
The pressure of having to perform sexually on the wedding night can lead to what happened. If that happened once or twice at the start of y our relationship... then you two moved into have more normal sexual relations, I'd say that it was not an issue.
But it sounds like this is a many year problem. There are things that can be done to help him.
He needs to see a doctor to have his testosterone levels checked. If it’s low it could lead to the problem he has.
If his testosterone levels are ok, them he needs to get check for a physical cause of ED (erectile dysfunction). Hopefully it’s something that can be fixed medically. The doctor might also be able to prescribe Viagra that will help with it as well.
His low interest in sex could be that he just has a low sex drive because of low hormones or it could be that he’s very embarrassed by his problem and so avoids sex.
How old is your husband?
About your wedding night. It sounds like this was the first time for sex between the two of you. Was it the first time for him in his life?
The pressure of having to perform sexually on the wedding night can lead to what happened. If that happened once or twice at the start of y our relationship... then you two moved into have more normal sexual relations, I'd say that it was not an issue.
But it sounds like this is a many year problem. There are things that can be done to help him.
He needs to see a doctor to have his testosterone levels checked. If it’s low it could lead to the problem he has.
If his testosterone levels are ok, them he needs to get check for a physical cause of ED (erectile dysfunction). Hopefully it’s something that can be fixed medically. The doctor might also be able to prescribe Viagra that will help with it as well.
His low interest in sex could be that he just has a low sex drive because of low hormones or it could be that he’s very embarrassed by his problem and so avoids sex.