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Quote: "I don't think I love you and I don't think I ever loved you. I don't think we ever had passion in our marriage either."
If you guys have felt happy over the last 20 years and now he is saying "I don't think I love you", I think he is feeling REALLY bad about himself and something or things he is involved in.
That's great that he quit smoking marijuana and hopefully quit viewing porn, that's a hard thing to do. So has he gotten professional help, has he replaced his bad habits with new ones, or is he just white knuckling it? My opinion would be that he has reverted back to some of his old habits and is ashamed about it or he is involved in a new bad habit. I hate to even throw an affair around in your head because I am sure you are already stressed out enough but that could be a possibility of why he is having odd behavior and then feeling guilty or emotional about it. I shamefully had an affair and would have my phone glued to me at all times. I would constantly be deleting and would also take my phone into the bathroom to answer a text or delete calls or messages. I would be so selfish to be irritable if my husband was trying to invade my privacy to check up on me. I am not proud of the way I acted.
Sorry you are going through this and feel so confused. I hope you guys are able to figure things out soon. Good Luck!
If you guys have felt happy over the last 20 years and now he is saying "I don't think I love you", I think he is feeling REALLY bad about himself and something or things he is involved in.
That's great that he quit smoking marijuana and hopefully quit viewing porn, that's a hard thing to do. So has he gotten professional help, has he replaced his bad habits with new ones, or is he just white knuckling it? My opinion would be that he has reverted back to some of his old habits and is ashamed about it or he is involved in a new bad habit. I hate to even throw an affair around in your head because I am sure you are already stressed out enough but that could be a possibility of why he is having odd behavior and then feeling guilty or emotional about it. I shamefully had an affair and would have my phone glued to me at all times. I would constantly be deleting and would also take my phone into the bathroom to answer a text or delete calls or messages. I would be so selfish to be irritable if my husband was trying to invade my privacy to check up on me. I am not proud of the way I acted.
Sorry you are going through this and feel so confused. I hope you guys are able to figure things out soon. Good Luck!
