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My husband and I have been seperated for almost 5 months our divorce is almost final.
I never wanted the divorce but my husband really wanted out. Never gave me reasons told me that he would always love me but he needed space. I felt like he was having a MLC.
There has not been another woman.
Now out of the blue he wants to try to get back together. He sends this in a text. I agreed to talk about things. He has been depressed lost 45 lbs. Hes been very unhappy seperated from me. He has a very hard job. He has basically not had a day off in 5 months.
We have went out to dinner a couple of times and its been three weeks since we decided to try again. He is currently living in a camper at his sisters home. I have asked him yesterday to come home but he won't. He tells me he still doesnt know what he wants.
He has a problem with my 20 year old daughter, they have a hard time getting along and he says there is no drauma where he's living. I can say that we have went through the typical teenager to 20's smart mouth stage with her. But she is very mature now. She just really dislikes him for what hes put me through and she tells him. A LOT!
So what do you guys think about all of this and any advice?
I feel like hes trying to make me choose between the tow of them. I have told him that theres no contest. I should not have to choose between them and I won't.
I never wanted the divorce but my husband really wanted out. Never gave me reasons told me that he would always love me but he needed space. I felt like he was having a MLC.
There has not been another woman.
Now out of the blue he wants to try to get back together. He sends this in a text. I agreed to talk about things. He has been depressed lost 45 lbs. Hes been very unhappy seperated from me. He has a very hard job. He has basically not had a day off in 5 months.
We have went out to dinner a couple of times and its been three weeks since we decided to try again. He is currently living in a camper at his sisters home. I have asked him yesterday to come home but he won't. He tells me he still doesnt know what he wants.
He has a problem with my 20 year old daughter, they have a hard time getting along and he says there is no drauma where he's living. I can say that we have went through the typical teenager to 20's smart mouth stage with her. But she is very mature now. She just really dislikes him for what hes put me through and she tells him. A LOT!
So what do you guys think about all of this and any advice?
I feel like hes trying to make me choose between the tow of them. I have told him that theres no contest. I should not have to choose between them and I won't.