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When a man climaxes...is the fluid supposed to collect in the front of the condom only? I've seen it where it ends up at the tip (mostly?), but also all around the shaft (still in the condom though). Condom too small?
 

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The semen is supposed to collect in the bottom tip, yes, if the condom fits properly. Personally, I've never worn one and my wifee is on birth control. I like to feel her and she likes to feel me and when I orgasm instead of latex, etc.:D
 

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yea...need to look into something besides latex...but just wanted to check for the time being. thing is, we don't like the idea of hormone based things...which rules out many options :/
 

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The semen should collect in the tip of the condom, and not travel up around the shaft. If it does, there could be a chance of spillage on withdrawal.

Here's condom size chart:-

Condom Size Chart - Choosing a Condom
 

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Should it be any different if this was not with regard to intercourse (in this context, it was manual stimulation)?

I know, probably weird, but we thought we would get used to using them before actually having intercourse with them. Better to find out now if we are using the wrong size...
 

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The modern trend in some condoms is for oversizing the head to allow a little slippage to increase male enjoyment. This can certainly allow semen to get lower on the shaft.

Proper condom use includes getting the hell out of dodge as soon as you're done.
 

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Good for you!

Yes, the semen should be gathered and contained in the reservoir tip. The condom needs to be tight enough around the shaft, and needs to have enough room at the tip. It's possible you may be pulling it too far down.

Once you have the condom fully seated, hold the bottom ring secure at the base of your penis. With the other hand, pull the tip upward to increase the space for collection. You may need to unwind the condom more, performing this procedure a few times. No more than 1/2 inch is needed to collect semen safely. If, after doing this, you run out of condom length, then the condom is too small. But, this is unlikely. A condom can be unrolled FAR beyond the average large size penis.


Next up, applying your man's condom with your mouth while he remains unaware you are applying a condom!
 

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Aw comeon Cletus, it'll be fun!
 

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There is no way the reservoir tip is voluminous enough to contain it all. It will go down the sides, but shouldn't have to go much past the glans, but then it depends on how much volume the man releases I guess.
 

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The correct way of putting on a condom is to pinch the reservoir at the tip to allow it to expand when you ejaculate. Otherwise, air pressure from the unpinched tip can force the ejaculate back down the sides of the shaft.

Most guys just drop the condom on like a hat and unroll.
 

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Is there a sign up sheet for this? I want to be sure to part of this class. LOL
In preparing to teach a course for sexual decision making and negotiation, there was an interesting comment made by another woman about applying a condom on your man without his knowledge. At the time I didn't think it could be done. None of us facilitators could claim first hand knowledge so... I volunteered to give it a try.

H had already had a vasectomy so I asked him to pick up a few condoms on the way home because I wanted to try something but couldn't tell him what... Otherwise he would be expecting it.

He enjoyed what he thought was a typical BJ a few days later until I jumped off the bed, threw my hands in the air and crowed "Taaa Dahhh!"

I'd like to thank the academy....
 

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In preparing to teach a course for sexual decision making and negotiation, there was an interesting comment made by another woman about applying a condom on your man without his knowledge. At the time I didn't think it could be done. None of us facilitators could claim first hand knowledge so... I volunteered to give it a try.

H had already had a vasectomy so I asked him to pick up a few condoms on the way home because I wanted to try something but couldn't tell him what... Otherwise he would be expecting it.

He enjoyed what he thought was a typical BJ a few days later until I jumped off the bed, threw my hands in the air and crowed "Taaa Dahhh!"

I'd like to thank the academy....
what would be more scary is if it was possible for women to remove the condom during coitus and somehow get it back on without him noticing.
 

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In preparing to teach a course for sexual decision making and negotiation, there was an interesting comment made by another woman about applying a condom on your man without his knowledge. At the time I didn't think it could be done. None of us facilitators could claim first hand knowledge so... I volunteered to give it a try.

H had already had a vasectomy so I asked him to pick up a few condoms on the way home because I wanted to try something but couldn't tell him what... Otherwise he would be expecting it.

He enjoyed what he thought was a typical BJ a few days later until I jumped off the bed, threw my hands in the air and crowed "Taaa Dahhh!"

I'd like to thank the academy....
I am almost tempted to throw the BS card on that one...A long term urinary tract, kidney srone, BPH problem necesitated us using condoms a short time ago....I could ALWAYS tell the difference...

As far as fit, I NEVER had to unroll one all the way, but as far as thickenss, I am a Jethro Tull......And always got leakage down the sides....
 

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It's quite possible if you're not expecting it, not looking for it to happen. The touch of hands unrolling a condom can easily be confused with simply using hands during a BJ. You keep it between teeth and cheek, then place it behind your front teeth as if you're about to blow. Bubble with chewing gun. Thats how you get the thing in place to begin with. Then use your hands like normal but hide the unrolling by drawing attention away from what the hands are doing. It has to be done rather slowly so it seems just like a regular BJ. the tricky part is not biting down on the condom while its all rolled up in the mouth.

I wish I could convince a few TAM wive's to give it a try and report back without their husbands finding out. The men can't ask their wives to do it cause obviously you'll be expecting it to happen and be too aware of looking for it.

Ohhhhhhh I know who to ask!!!
 

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Sorry Anon I have a hard time buying it. I would start wondering very quickly why this BJ really sucked. I see her head moving why don't I feel anything ?
 

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Sorry Anon I have a hard time buying it. I would start wondering very quickly why this BJ really sucked. I see her head moving why don't I feel anything ?
That is funny.

But that's okay if you don't believe me. I'm working on getting a disinterested TAM wife to try it.
 
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