WOW,it sounds like you really arnt IN LOVE with your current husband. But babe i fell in to a similar situation with my husband that i am separated from he is abusive and mean. On the other hand the man i left was PERFECT i made a terrable terrable mistake to leave him. Dont leave your hubby he sounds wonderful the grass will always seem greener on the other side. Our parents are very much wiser than us and sometimes they see things we dont. you will be making a big mistake who is willing to exept you through the kiss. you should go to counseling am make things right with hubby HE love you. this other man has a family and if he will step outside of that with you ,he will step out on you for another women.think about it im here babe keep posting!