I need help, I'm so hurt an angry that I don't know what to do. My husband of almost 7 years has been looking at personal ads for the past month. He never came out and told me I found it on his phone when I happened to go online to check on my football pool. I felt like someone had punched me several times in the gut when I saw it. I feel like a stupid fool. When I confronted him about what I found on his phone he was defensive and then when I gave details his whole demeanor changed. He knew that I knew and there was no way of lying. I demanded to know why he would put everything in jeopardy to be with someone else. He never really did give me a straight answer. I asked him if he cheated on me and he insisted that he hasn't, that it never got that far because he couldn't hurt me like that. I told him that he did hurt me and I couldn't understand how he could love me and hurt me so deeply. We've never had anything serious like this happen in our relationship or our marriage. We have known eachother since the first grade and been together for 11 years. I'm struggling with my distrust in him. How do I even begin to trust that he won't do this again? How do I trust that he won't cheat on me? I feel like this whole month has been a lie and that he mentally and emotionally cheated on me. We have a 3 year old daughter together and I'm pregnant with our second child. I asked him did he think about how bad this was going to hurt our marriage when he was looking at the trashy people and he said no. What do I do? I feel like if there was no children involved I would be gone but the reality is there are children. I don't want to feel stuck but I am. Anyone else have any insight?