Hi,
I posted a while back for advice on my failing marriage but now things have taken a sad turn.
I have always trusted my wife but friends pointed out that her recent behaviours pointed to an affair.
Extremely reluctantly I looked at her phone bills more to prove my friends wrong, but instead discovered a number that was being called and texted everyday. I checked her phone, almost nothing - so everything is being deleted which is odd since all her other conversations are not.
I confronted her, she says no. Even accuses me of trying to hang our failing marriage on this.
We're currently at crisis point in our marriage. She's fallen out of love with me and blames me. I want to work at it. She doesn't know what she wants but will stay because of the kids.
It feels like I'm the only one who is trying to save our marriage and now this - it makes me feel very resentful so we are now going nowhere.
I could be wrong about the affair. I know it is a guy, I found one text which is sexually flirty. Make me feel sick.
Any thoughts...
I posted a while back for advice on my failing marriage but now things have taken a sad turn.
I have always trusted my wife but friends pointed out that her recent behaviours pointed to an affair.
Extremely reluctantly I looked at her phone bills more to prove my friends wrong, but instead discovered a number that was being called and texted everyday. I checked her phone, almost nothing - so everything is being deleted which is odd since all her other conversations are not.
I confronted her, she says no. Even accuses me of trying to hang our failing marriage on this.
We're currently at crisis point in our marriage. She's fallen out of love with me and blames me. I want to work at it. She doesn't know what she wants but will stay because of the kids.
It feels like I'm the only one who is trying to save our marriage and now this - it makes me feel very resentful so we are now going nowhere.
I could be wrong about the affair. I know it is a guy, I found one text which is sexually flirty. Make me feel sick.
Any thoughts...