Several times now me and 35+ year old my wife have argued about going to dance clubs with just the girls. I don't like her going out to dance clubs because of all the bad drunken crap that goes on, she knows this and its the only thing in this marriage that I ask for.
This weekend her and several girlfriends went out of town shopping, I have no problem with this all at. Sunday I was looking through my Facebook and seen that she went out to a dance club. Nothing was said to me. No facebook mgs, no text and no phone call. Trust is a big thing in every relationship but is this not a big trust issue. Knowing that I did not want this she did it anyway and behind my back.
I confronted her but its now again my fault.
What do I do?
This weekend her and several girlfriends went out of town shopping, I have no problem with this all at. Sunday I was looking through my Facebook and seen that she went out to a dance club. Nothing was said to me. No facebook mgs, no text and no phone call. Trust is a big thing in every relationship but is this not a big trust issue. Knowing that I did not want this she did it anyway and behind my back.
I confronted her but its now again my fault.
What do I do?