[Chopsy]

Just not sure what to think. So-called friend let slip yesterday that my H called a month ago. When asked where he was, H replied at Sharon's apartment.

Allthis time I thought he was having a MLC. Ive been very understanding and supporting. He won't take my calls. He only sends brief texts. Guilty much?

I assume there is an EA and likely a PA. what do you think.
I'm obviously keen now to find evidence and have th truth out. I know about VAR and key loggers, but he's been away since end of Sept when he left me. So im unable to do any surveillance of any kind.

Any advice? Do I keep this to myself and hope to find more evidence or put two and two together and confront? Any suggestions or advice what to do?????

 

[KathyBatesel]

1. You're not together now.
2. He won't even talk to you.
3. You have all the evidence you need to know that he's not committed to you.

Your desire to learn more is an attempt to regain a sense of control. Your desire to confront is an attempt to do this, too, but also maybe to hurt him.

Neither of those things is productive.

I'd encourage you to file for divorce if you want to wake him up.