caught in the act

is she now your ex? if not it will help to go 180 and dump her you are not married to her

I caught my STBXW in the act. Ended up in jail for 24 hours after that (I did not touch her) ... seems you were smarter.

Yea the advice on here is going to be 9/10. If your not married RUN.

Run and don't look back.

No talk. No excuses. Just Done and over.

You don't want to lose that image. Let it burn in so you'll remember it always. Next, try to figure out what clues you missed that allowed you to get tangled up with someone who would do that to you. Try to fix you so it doesn't happen again.

txh everyone..my bad ..she is my ex now..but the images still is in the head..just dont know how to get rid of those images..sorry for my spelling iam from europe...

TDSC60 said:

Run and don't look back.

No talk. No excuses. Just Done and over.

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Agreed. That's what I did. It's painful and hurtful at the beginning, but it will go away. My STBXW is just dead for me. I am living a good life after all!

pobodyisnerfect said:

txh everyone..my bad ..she is my ex now..but the images still is in the head..just dont know how to get rid of those images..sorry for my spelling iam from europe...

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Sleep with her mom? Sorry, bad youtube vid but it was funny.

Find someone better and you'll forget it pretty quick. When you see the new gf naked, you'll totally forget the ex.

pobodyisnerfect said:

txh everyone..my bad ..she is my ex now..but the images still is in the head..just dont know how to get rid of those images..sorry for my spelling iam from europe...

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Time is the only solution to this issue....give it time dude!

Sleep with her mom? Sorry, bad youtube vid but it was funny.

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:lol:

Yeah, have to agree...

for the ones who are wondering:

I'm gonna f*ck your mom! - YouTube

pobodyisnerfect said:

txh everyone..my bad ..she is my ex now..but the images still is in the head..just dont know how to get rid of those images..sorry for my spelling iam from europe...

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Keep the wound clean and dry and covered to promote healing. Take ibuprofen for pain.

The image will fade over time, you can't speed up the process. Like the above statement, keep your mind clean (don't talk to her or see her at all), take Ibuprofen for pain (go out and meet new people).

And also don't carry this into your next relationship. Learn for your own benefits (being aware of the true status of your relationship etc.) but whatever you do, be very mindful of this becoming an insecurity in future relationships.

costa200 said:

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Yeah, have to agree...

for the ones who are wondering:

I'm gonna f*ck your mom! - YouTube

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OMG, HAHAHAHAHA, That is so funny. HHAAHAHHAHA

:lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:

Pain isn't a bad thing if it teaches you something.

unbelievable said:

Pain isn't a bad thing if it teaches you something.

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Pain gave me two PhDs and an Associate degree this past year.